Chivalry

When we men think about ourselves, we like to think we are a man, a real man, according to our definition of what we learned a man should be. The subject matter coming to light is one that has been considered for quite some time, and will be taken further at a later date, but for now one will place emphasis on that which is most important; Chivalry.


Mass media has given praise to the sensitive-listener types who grace the magazine pages, television screens, and of course, all that is impacted by societal norms. This should not be! It should never have been! It has affected the social lives of many youth and is sending the wrong message. Reason: One should grow up knowing how to build from scratch, fix everything within a home, read books and newspapers, drink black coffee, write hand written notes and enjoy the occasional libation. He should not cry, listen to something one does not find interesting, order anything but black coffee or espresso, and most importantly, wear shorts, flip flops, or white socks with dress shoes.


You may ask, "Where has the John Wayne, Steve McQueen, Robert Redford-esque (sh!t even Kevin Costner) type disappeared to?"





We have been shunned because people watch television instead of going to a cafés and have conversations like the good ol' days. One continues to walk street side, open doors, and if she really deserves it, we take her for a steak and night out on the town in black suit, white dress shirt, and cuff links (bowtie/tie optional) while she is in her favorite dress (or that which she smiles most in). Several have decided to take the initiative in living this lifestyle - I'm sure you can think of one or two.

Make statements, don’t ask questions.



-D.